From now we are officially on our Christmas break ladies, but rest assured I’ve got lots of lovely weddings and brand new dresses to share with you, so watch this space!

The 2022 diary is quickly filling up, particularly at weekends, so don’t worry you can still contact me and get your appointment booked, I just might take a little longer to reply.

Have a wonderful time with your family and friends and we can’t wait to make more dreams come true in 2022!

Well, ladies, I arrived in York and I was feeling excited and looking forward to a fab night at the North of England Wedding Awards 2021!

For those of you who don't know, The North of England Wedding Awards #NOEWA are the most prestigious awards for client service excellence.

The Awards recognise businesses in the wedding industry which go the extra mile for their customers, providing outstanding service and inspiring their customers to want to actively and positively promote them.

Each year, hundreds of companies enter into the awards. Votes are submitted in their thousands. From these votes, finalists are created, and the winners are normally announced at York Racecourse, where we enjoy a delicious three-course meal and celebrations carry on until the early hours...

So on Monday night in true glamorous style, my three fabulous friends and I - who have helped me SO much over the last five years and who I truly love to bits, strutted our stuff into the fabulous awards ceremony...

So nice to be OUT OUT with my faves! Fingers and toes crossed for later on!

I can not believe it... We have only gone and won another award!

So this just happened ladies! We are officially THE WINNERS! Literally crying my eyes out!! Thank you to every single person who voted! Mums birthday today... got to believe that she’s looking down on me!! Hope I’ve made you proud!! Love you!

A huge Thanks to everyone who voted for us, Thank you so much to every single bride - it really does mean the world!!

Thank you to Wedding fayres Yorkshire and The Wedding Guide UK for organising a truly great night!!!

Yay! The email we have been waiting for… WE ARE FINALISTS!

Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to vote, I feel absolutely over the moon right now and cannot wait to attend the awards event on 18th October! That date would have been my mums birthday, so I’m hoping that might be a bit of a good luck charm. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! Oh heck, now I need to find a dress!

Visit us on stands E23 & E24 showcasing our stunning range of designer gowns, perfect for brides who want to celebrate their gorgeous curves! Featuring True Bride, Mary's Bridal, Sophia Tolli, White Rose and more...

The I Do Wedding Exhibition at Ice Sheffield features jewellers, bridalwear, wedding cars, cake suppliers and lots more, doors will open at 10 am on Sunday 5th September to this fantastic wedding exhibition. Get your tickets and get excited to plan your entire wedding day under one roof!

WHERE: Ice Sheffield, Coleridge Road, Sheffield S9 5DA
WHEN: 5th September 2021, 10 am until 4.30 pm
TICKETS: Get your tickets via the link below

For more info visit: https://www.ido-weddingexhibitions.co.uk/sheffield/

I’ve thought long and hard about today and how I feel about the whole thing, I’ve gone backwards and forwards, then backwards again!

I for one, absolutely hate wearing the masks and as a woman of a certain age if a hot flush comes on it's game over.

However, this really isn’t about me, it’s about you, my customers and particularly those brides who have waited so long for their wedding day to come around and are marrying in the next few weeks.

I do have to get up close and personal with you, helping you in and out of dresses so it would be thoughtless and unprofessional of me to totally remove all restrictions at this point.

SO I’ve decided that I will continue to wear a mask when in close proximity and politely ask that brides and their guests wear masks too when required. You will get more information about this when your appointment is confirmed.

All sanitising regimes will still be in place in between appointments, so we continue to have fewer appointments available than pre covid times (please book early!)

Sanitiser will be available at the beginning and throughout the appointment, so please use it freely!

I will be increasing the numbers to bride plus THREE guests going forward and will review this throughout the coming weeks. It’s not my intention to increase past this number as it’s really not workable in the space we have.

Hopefully, this will only be for a little while longer, I really do care so much about your welfare and want to do everything I can to ensure everyone stays happy and healthy, so you can have the wedding of your dreams!!

Thanks so much for your understanding and ongoing cooperation. If you have any personal concerns or questions please contact me, I’m always happy to help.

Well, this just makes me so proud... Never let anyone tell you you can’t do something, with determination, drive and passion anything is possible!! Thank you @startuploansuk I’m truly living my dream.

“Enough!” said Jane Palmer after being made redundant for the third time. ⁠
⁠
In 2015, she took out a #StartUpLoan to open @celebratingcurvesbridal, a bridal wear business for plus-size brides in Sheffield.

Jane Palmer, 53, took out a £25,000 Start Up Loan in 2015 to launch Celebrating Curves, a bridal wear business for plus-size brides based in Sheffield.

After being made redundant for the third time from the management training industry, Jane decided she needed to become her own boss and launch a business.

Jane had the idea for Celebrating Curves after struggling to find a retailer that offered plus-size dresses for her to try for her own wedding. Fifteen years later, she caters to 150 weddings on average a year, with customers visiting her from across the UK due to her popularity on plus-size forums.

While the pandemic meant the store was closed for eight months of 2020, Celebrating Curves had a waiting list of hundreds for its re-opening.

Thanks to great online reviews, she now has customers from across the UK, and although the pandemic forced her to close the shop for 8 months, she had a waiting list of hundreds for its reopening ⁠
⁠
“I relied completely on the £25,000 Start-Up Loan and mentoring support to launch Celebrating Curves and turn my situation around. Looking back, I will always be grateful I made that decision and now have autonomy over my own future” says Jane.⁠
⁠
See how you can be your own boss. Start-Up Loans UK https://www.startuploans.co.uk

#StartBusiness #StartUpLoans #StartUpFunding #StartUpLife #SmallBusinessOwner #StartUpStories #SmallBusinessUK #SMEUK #SmallBusinessSupport #SmallBusinessStories #UKUnlockedSUL #Unemployed #unemployment #HowToStartABusiness#startup #startupbusiness #startuploan #startuploansuk #livingthedream #businessowner #businesssupport #businesssheffield

Article originally from The Conversation by Marlise Schoeny

ABOVE: Wedding gown bodice, circa 1836. The Ohio State Historic Costume & Textiles Collection

 “A wedding gown represents far more than just a dress. It is also the embodiment of a dream,” said Vera Wang.

For most brides, that dream is realised in a beautiful white wedding gown. It’s a seemingly timeless tradition that is often the centre point of little girls’ wedding fantasies. In 2018, about 83% of brides wore white dresses on their big day, according to a survey by Brides Magazine. Such an overwhelming statistic begs the question: Why do we associate white with wedding gowns? And how long has this tradition existed?

Godey’s Magazine and Lady’s Book, a leading 19th-century women’s publication, addressed this in an article on the “Etiquette of Trousseau” in their August 1849 issue. “Custom, from time immemorial, has decided on white as [a wedding gown’s] proper hue, emblematic of the freshness and purity of girlhood,” they wrote.

While this implies a long history of bridal white, it is not true. At the time, white had only been a popular wedding dress fashion for about nine years – strictly among the well-to-do.

The practice likely traces back more than 2,000 years, with roots in the Roman Republic (509 B.C. - 27 B.C.) when brides wore a white tunic. The colour white represented purity, symbolizing both a woman’s chastity and her transition to a married Roman matron. It was also associated with Vesta, the virgin goddess of the hearth, home and family who was served by temple priestesses garbed in distinctive white clothing.

After the fall of the Roman Empire, white marriage attire fell out of fashion. From the Middle Ages to the mid-19th century, most brides simply wore their best dress or purchased a new gown that could be worn again. White was simply not a practical choice in a world without running water – or where laundry was hand-washed.

ABOVE: Queen Victoria and Prince Albert on their return from their marriage service in 1840. Rischgitz/Getty Images

A royal wedding sparked the modern trend in white bridal wear. Queen Victoria chose to forgo the royal tradition of wearing coronation robes when she married Prince Albert on Feb. 10, 1840. Instead, she wore a fashionable white gown that was featured in newspapers and magazines around the world.

The style and colour of her gown were copied across continents as women aspired to look like the young, attractive queen – much like the public emulates celebrities today. Wearing a white wedding dress became a sign of wealth and status rather than virginity. Only wealthy brides could wear a white silk gown since they were wed in clean, elegant places that were removed from the muck and grime of life during the mid-19th century Industrial Age.

These gowns were actually cream or ivory, which was more flattering to the complexion. The brilliant white wedding dress would not become popular in Europe and North America until the 1930s, and would not truly become rooted in the public consciousness until World War II.

ABOVE: This classic 1950s-era gown, worn in 1957 by a bride named Rita Jane Elliott, is a typical example of the post-war style. It was bought at Madisons, a high-end women’s clothing store in Columbus, Ohio. The Ohio State Historic Costume & Textiles Collection

With wartime rations of fabric and a surge of weddings as soldiers returned from the front, the war sparked changes in the design of wedding dresses. In 1943, while the war was still raging in the U.S, the federal Limitation Order 85 dictated that only one and three-quarters yards of fabric could be used to create a dress.

The American Association of Bridal Manufacturers lobbied for an exemption, arguing that it was important to the overall morale of citizens. They asserted, after conducting a study of 2,000 brides that, “American boys are going off to war and what are they fighting for except the privilege of getting married in a traditional way? They’re fighting for our way of life, and this is part of our way of life.”

They were ultimately successful, and the limitation order exempted wedding gowns. But silk was difficult to find; the war with Japan had disrupted trade routes. Nylon was also in short supply, as it was being used in place of silk to manufacture parachutes. Most wedding gowns from those years were made from acetate – except for those worn in “parachute weddings.” Some soldiers, like B-29 pilot Major Claude Hensinger, kept the parachutes that saved their lives during the war and later gave the material to their betrothed to make a gown.

ABOVE: Close-up of Rita Jane Elliot’s white silk dress, which incorporated silk, taffeta, sequins and pearls. Ohio State Historic Costume & Textiles Collection

Although the first records of brides garbed in white reach far back into the annals of history, it only became standard fashion over the last 80 years. With the arrival of ready-to-wear clothing, brides could order affordable, mass-produced gowns based on sample sizes that were then fitted for them: a custom-made gown at a ready-to-wear price. A large, traditional wedding with the bride outfitted in a princess-style white wedding gown became a symbol of the American dream.

From WWII through the end of the 20th century, the white gown symbolized prosperity, virginity and a lifetime commitment to one person. For most people today, those meanings are gone.

White is now the overwhelming choice for most brides, with 4 out of 5 choosing to walk down the aisle in a white gown, a sort of bridal uniform. It has become an iconic symbol of weddings, an expected part of the celebration, and despite knowing the relatively short history of the tradition of a white wedding, it was my choice as well.

Just because a high street bridal line claims to have inclusive sizing, it doesn't make it so.

By Jess Thomson
Apr 29, 2021

 Your wedding is often considered to be one of the best days of your life, filled with confetti, cake, embarrassing relatives and lots of booze. And for many brides, one of the most important details of the day is their dress.

However, with the average UK dress size a size 16, and many bridal brands only stocking limited (read: smaller) size ranges, curvier brides-to-be can find themselves unable to buy their dream outfits. It's something fashion blogger Callie Thorpe has explored when recounting her own wedding dress shopping experience at various boutiques here.

Now, though, with the uptick of high street wedding dresses, there's hope that the more accessible price point offered by big brands could also result in more inclusive sizing, but this doesn't seem to be the case.

Not-so-fun fact: wedding dresses run small anyway, meaning that if you’re a size 16 in jeans, you’ll likely be a size 18 or 20 in bridal terms. The thing is, even if you do find somewhere that offers your size, plus-size wedding dresses are often 'poorly fitted' to a larger woman’s figure, or downright 'unfashionable'.

Natalie is currently planning her wedding but, as a size 24, she's struggling to find a dress that is both reasonably priced and actually suits her. “The styles offered in my size are often seem dated and as if no thought has been put into the design for plus-sized people,” explains Natalie. “For instance, sleeveless bandeau styles which, while lovely, may not be as comfortable for plus-size people because of body image issues surrounding exposed arms.”

This unimaginative design approach has been noted across plus-size collections on the high street, with curve ranges feeling like something of an afterthought, but the matter feels even more poignant for brides when they go wedding dress shopping.

"My store specialises in plus- size dresses (16+) so I get feedback every day from brides who have visited other stores and have been disappointed with the choice available to them and the treatment they have received," explains Jane, who started the business following her own experience with retailers that didn't cater for her size. "It amazes me that in 2021 plus-sized women are still discriminated against in this way."

Getty Images

While you might argue that custom made gowns are always the option, with bespoke tailoring costing a premium rate compared to off-the-rack looks, many budgets simply won't allow for it, leading brides to explore more affordable wedding dress alternatives.

Just because a high street bridal line claims to have extensive sizing, that doesn't make it so. Certain brands have described their ranges as 'size inclusive', despite only stocking straight sizes and, in some cases, stopping at size 16. This performative inclusivity is considered a form of ‘wokewashing’ and it needs to stop.

That being said, size-inclusive wokewashing isn’t unique to the high street wedding dress market, it’s an epidemic seen across the whole industry. In some cases, brands have even featured plus-size models in their campaigns when, in reality, they only stock up to size 14.

“It’s upsetting to see brands claim to be inclusive and ‘diverse’ but don't make clothing for people larger than a size 16, which I wouldn’t even consider 'plus-size'," explains Elizabeth, a postgraduate student from Belfast who recently started searching for her perfect wedding dress.

Elizabeth is a size 18, just above the average dress size of women in the UK, but still feels isolated by the industry. "It feels like they’re using the term to get eyes on their brand, but there’s nothing to back it up, just branding.”
The misuse of progressive buzzwords and false promises makes it seem like specific labels want to be seen as inclusive, but without putting in any of the effort to make positive change.

“It’s a joke, to be honest, but not surprising at all," adds Gina Tonic, freelance writer and founder of The Fat Zine, who rallies against tokenistic plus-size marketing. "Body positivity has devolved so much that the language associated with it feels meaningless and this is just another example of how capitalism and fat liberation aren't made to co-exist.”

Let's not forget, we live in an age where the plus-sized clothing market in the UK alone is worth 5.08 billion pounds and growing, so you would think that the fashion industry would be chomping at the bit to make curvy women feel welcome and excited to spend their money on gorgeous wedding dresses, rather than stigmatised and excluded. But how can we help create change?

Getty Images

"It shouldn't be up to the plus-sized community to fix our feelings of isolation, instead of a society that isolates us over and over," emphasises Gina, starting that the responsibility lies with brands to close the gap in treatment between plus and straight-sized women in the bridal industry. “There is no answer to solving this feeling other than brands providing actually inclusive sizing."

While the availability of more extensive affordable wedding dress offerings might ultimately hinge on individual brands expanding their bridal ranges, there is actually something you can do.

It needs to be said that there are still some brands selling reasonably-priced curve dresses, there are just fewer of them. So, why not help support those labels doing their part, proving that stocking bridal options for those with curves is financially viable? Some of our favourite size-inclusive wedding dress brands are ASOS Curve, Celebrating Curves, True Curves, Chi Chi, Monsoon, Simply Be, Maggie Sottero, Beautiful Brides, and more.

Loud Bodies, Plus Equals and Fashion Brand Company are also ones to have on your radar, offering versatile plus-size clothing that could substitute for a wedding dress (and be repurposed afterwards).

So, where does that leave us? In short, fashion has come a long way in terms of inclusivity with the rise of more accessible price point bridal ranges, but the industry still has a lot of work to do to reach the point where the stigma against plus-sized people is non-existent.

We, the shoppers, need to speak up about the lack of choice available to plus-sized brides and also support the wedding dress brands (both high street and boutiques) with broad size ranges, showing that there's a market here and we refused to be ignored anymore. Let's keep pushing towards a future where everyone will be able to shop for their perfect dress no matter their size.

The latest issue of Cosmopolitan UK is out now and you can SUBSCRIBE HERE.